Christmas is a time of year that people often think about adding a pet to their family. While this should never be an impulse or surprise purchase the Summer months or school holidays can be a great time of getting to know a new pet. The RSPCA have a fabulous guide to help decide what breed of dog might suit your family and to work through the decision-making process of dog ownership.&nbsp;<a href="https://rspcapuppyguide.com.au">The Smart Puppy and Dog Buyer's Guide | RSPCA (rspcapuppyguide.com.au)</a>
Having said that, we love our dogs and cats and they are very much a part of our family- our fur babies! Some couples worry about how their pets will respond when they bring a new baby home for the first time. In fact, this is a big reason why many people re-home their pets, however, it doesn&rsquo;t have to be this way.
Understandably, we are concerned with how everyone will go when there is a change. Who is going to be 'top- dog'?
There are some practical things we can do to make the transition easier for everyone!&nbsp;
-Practise walking your dog with the pram before baby arrives, so that you and your dog are both comfortable negotiating the pusher, before adding in the unpredictability of your baby!
-Find a sound grab of a baby crying and play it to your pets at a low volume.&nbsp;
-Gradually increase the volume over time so that your dog becomes acclimatised to the sound of a baby crying. This will help to reduce the anxiety of trying to soothe a crying baby and your stressed dog at the same time!
-Your dog or cat has an amazing sense of smell, so make sure you involve their nose. If you can, have your partner take some clothes home from hospital after you've given birth for your pet to smell- this will certainly smell different to the pregnant you. And offer your dog/cat a used baby blanket or clothes (or nappy) to smell before you bring the baby home too. They can start to know baby&rsquo;s smell too.
-Mumma, when you come home after the birth, have your partner hold babe so that your pets can greet you without babe in your arms. They will have missed you and will want to say hello. You will certainly have a changed fragrance compared to pregnancy, according to your dog!
-If you&rsquo;re worried about cats jumping onto baby&rsquo;s bassinet, try quarantining a room for babe that&rsquo;s out of bounds for heat-seeking cats (they&rsquo;re attracted to babe&rsquo;s warmth). Or try door guards prior to the birth to find one that works for you.
Give your pets space to come and meet baby in their own time. Don&rsquo;t try to force anything. You know your pets best, but the general advice is to never leave babies and pets together unsupervised. If they can&rsquo;t be actively supervised then they should be securely separated. Chat to your vet for some more specific advice, or check the resources on, <a href="https://www.wearefamily.vic.gov.au/understanding.html">We Are Family | Introduction (vic.gov.au)&nbsp;</a>
I&rsquo;ll leave you with a fun fact: Children of dog-owning families have a 13% lower chance of developing asthma than non-dog-owning families (Fall et al 2015)&hellip; having a dog is good for your gut microbiome! Who knew!!&nbsp;
Ros :)

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I know for me, the term Matrescence entered my world when I was already 5 years into motherhood. It was a term, that once I understood, gave me so much insight, confirmation and relief that what I had been experiencing in my own motherhood journey was actually so common and somewhat normal.
For those that don&rsquo;t know, Matrescence was first recognised in the 1970&rsquo;s by Dana Raphael and encompasses every aspect of a mother&rsquo;s identity, her physical self and her reality. It touches every aspect of our life (consciously or unconsciously). According to the Cambridge Dictionary, matrescence is &lsquo;the process of becoming a mother&rsquo;. Where a woman experiences physical, psychological, emotional &amp; spiritual changes after the birth of a baby. Regardless of the duration of pregnancy, a woman will still journey through matrescence.
Matrescence can be similarly related to adolescence, where we journey through a significant period of change in our lives, unraveling, exploring and questioning who we are now. Although unlike adolescence, where it has a completion, matrescence can be said to last a lifetime. Like adolescence, things can feel uncoordinated, messy and often times grieving our old self. But on the other hand, relishing in awe of loving a tiny human more than you knew possible. It is a conflict of emotions that have us often feeling the good, bad and ugly all in the same breath.
I feel that matrescence is important for all women to understand as it&rsquo; s an opportunity to understand how, what and why we experience the thoughts, feelings and emotions we do, when we enter into motherhood. Understanding matrescence allows a woman to see that the shifts, changes and undulations that she is experiencing in motherhood aren&rsquo;t just &lsquo;all in her head&rsquo;. It gives a mother the recognition of the enormity of change (often unexpected) that occurs as she enters into motherhood.
I know for me, my sense of self and identity shifted completely. I questioned &lsquo;who am I now&rsquo;, since becoming a mother. Despite vowing that I would not &lsquo;loose myself&rsquo; when I entered into motherhood. Every part of me, felt like I was walking into new territory. It unraveled and expanded me beyond any preconception and often took me to my knees. As my own matrescence journey unfolded I could see the shifts and changes happening within me, especially emotionally &amp; spiritually. Which has opened me to have a deeper understanding about who I am at my soul level and giving myself permission to explore that on a deeper level.
Having an understanding about matrescence, gives women a word that they can use to encompass the significant shifts and changes we experience, along with a deeper understanding of the transformative aspect for the woman too. To be able to lead and reassure a mother that it is okay to not put motherhood first all the time and take time to prioritise their own needs too. Because you matter and often we as mums are the glue that holds everything together.
By sharing and talking about matrescence and the journey that you&rsquo;re experiencing with other mothers, begins to normalise this transition process and gives us space to explore who we are now, since becoming a mother. Along with expressing the &lsquo;realness&rsquo; of motherhood and the challenges we face, the emotions we feel and the experiences that
some days take us to our knees. Because when we start to share authentically, we can reduce the pressure of feeling as though we need to &lsquo;have it all together&rsquo; all the time. We can loose the super mum cape and start to be honoured for the season we&rsquo;re in and be supported by other mums, who are in the same realm as you.
So to all the mama&rsquo;s out there, take a moment to honour where you&rsquo;re at and give yourself some kindness and grace. Because you&rsquo;re all going through this transformative journey, which I know can feel overwhelming some days. So take it one step at a time and release the pressure that you put on yourself. You&rsquo;re doing an amazing job. If you need any support or guidance through the messy parts that motherhood is throwing you right now, do reach out. As you can probably see, I am truly passionate about supporting mothers in understanding your unique matrescence journey and your transition through motherhood.
Written by Kirstie Maddocks
Midwife, Motherhood Mentor, Space Holder and Healer.
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What is Matrescence and why it’s important for all women to know

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Let's take a moment to unpack a little bit about who we are and how Mamaly began. In 2020 Founders Josh and Sarah journeyed through their pregnancy, awaiting the arrival of their first born. With the pair both experiencing many challenging seasons in life, this this was no different. A high risk pregnancy meant what should be fairly routine, became a little more complicated and quite overwhelming.&nbsp;
As new parents Josh and Sarah continued to search for support services and others who had similar experiences. It was during this period before Oscar was born, the conversation developed about a platform that would make everything a little easier.&nbsp;
In 2021 Oscar entered into the world and the first few months were not at all easy, encountering a variety of trivial experiences - this only pushed Josh and Sarah to engage with more people about the project. With a vision so great it was time to group developers and partners together, helping to create what we see today. A goal to empower a growing community within Australia, a directory of suppliers that offers a variety of service offerings and giveaways to provide an extra little bit of joy through different seasons of life!&nbsp;
This is just the beginning - the team is growing and the platform and will enter different phases of rollout over the next 12 months. Establishing a community, a collective of mamas and their families who are continuing to move mountains in their own life - we are simply available as and when it happens with over 150+ suppliers to help, now located around Australia.
2020: Founders Vision
2021: Project Development&nbsp;
2022: Mamalaide - South Australia Official Launch&nbsp;
2023: Annual Suppliers Event + National Rollout&nbsp;
2024: Coming Soon..
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